“There is nothing inherently sacred
about moral codes.
they are the work of human hands,
and what man has made, man can destroy!”
~ Anton Szandor LaVey
Cultivating a community of responsible, vetted hedonists is how we guarantee safety and sustainability for our events. Maintaining a degree of ‘inclusive exclusivity’ allows us to preserve the ethic that our guests be able to fully indulge in the experience, unmasked and unencumbered.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Is the Socíété for me?
A: Our events are curated for kinky people, fetishists, voyeurs, exhibitionists, lovers of the perverse and connoisseurs of all that make life pleasurable. Our events are best enjoyed, however, by individuals like the aforementioned who also have a penchant for art, evocative performance and elevated food/drink.
Q: Why do I need to apply for membership?
A: Discretion, privacy and safety are paramount principles to us, as our performers and many of our members are professionals in good standing, or simply individuals seeking to be vulnerable and unbound in a secure environment. Requiring membership is how we determine whether applicants can contribute to a culture of responsible indulgence, and it’s how we protect the privacy of our attendees.
Q: How does the application and referral process work?
A: After you submit an application, someone from the Société will contact your member reference to verify you. Once approved, you will receive a welcome email and be eligible to attend our events. If you’re already approved and someone has named you as a reference on their application, you’ll receive an additional email confirming whether you agree to refer them, and whether you believe they’ll contribute positively to our events.
Q: Can I come alone?
A: Absolutely— we’re confident you’ll get acquainted fast with the debauchery.
Q: Who is the Société?
A: A cadre of seasoned fetishists, artists and kinky curators who sought to design an all-encompassing experience that conjures desire and excitement far beyond what is found at a typical kink party.
Q: How is my application data stored?
A: Applicant data is sent via double-encryption and is then stored in a password-protected database that is only accessible by 3 event coordinators. When you’re an approved member, your name and email address will be the only pieces of data that we may refer to moving forward, particularly if you refer your friends.
Q: Is there a dress code for events?
A: Yes. Attending members are required to abide by a strict dress code— either explicit fetish wear or ‘sharp black’ (all-black semi-formal attire; no t-shirts, jeans or casual/sportswear). Failure to arrive in appropriate fashion may delay your entry, as we will ask you to go home and change clothing. As far as other expectations/etiquette, attendees should remember that our intent is to curate a thoughtful, elevated experience, meaning we expect everyone to be respectful (of each other, the space, staff and performers), mindful (of their space and their volume), and to strictly abide by safe, sane and consensual practices when engaging in play. If attendees are forceful or belligerent, they will be removed and could have their membership permanently revoked.